Problems With Premature Ejaculation
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Most men at some time in their lives will have a problem with premature ejaculation also known as rapid ejaculation, or by it’s Latin name ejaculatio praecox and with a playful attitude and understanding on both parts it usually does not cause any long term problems, but it it lasts of boy you will have problems like no other.
If it lasts then a whole series of events unfolds and the guy is in serious trouble. Lets go back to the beginning. When a relationship starts or you are just having casual sex then the attraction is totally sexual you may never see them again and if you play this game then for you it is not a problem as long as you do not mind the reputation of being no good in bed.
Guys and women do talk and tell their friends about you as an unsatisfying sex life and the emotional problems they are having and in time many women go elsewhere for their pleasure, just as you would.
The excitement of the first encounter can lead many men to coming quickly and there may be a survival aspect to this still running from the past. If you come quick you have less chance of being eaten by a lion. But that was a long time ago.
For many men this problem is a personal hell that they live through each day eroding their self confidence, esteem and eating away at the very fibre of their being. Causing great distress not just for them but also their wives and partners. Many relationships end because of this one issue in their lives.
It does not have to be you. I am a therapist in Leamington Spa Warwickshire UK who has helped many men with this problem and women who were involved with a partner who had it. Yes women go to therapists because their partners have this problem and they want help to bring back sexual satisfaction in to their lives.
So what is PE? Well basically it is your inability to control when you come. You can not yet delay. You can learn how to do this. Now how long is long enough depends on the lady you are with but basically it is down to how you think and feel. How do I know this? because millions of men do not have your problem so they must be doing something you are not. I also have close on 20 years of helping guys with this issue.
So what cause it? Well usually it is not a medical condition so that leaves the fact that up until now you have just not learnt how to control your emotions, thinking and feelings when having sex. It all takes place between your ears and that is my area of expertise and the area that I will help you with.
Anxiety and stress are two of the biggest reasons for PE that is why I have recommend you to down load the stress MP3 above, when you reduce these two factors often the problem goes as well. Talking with your partner and letting them know that you are doing something about it and that it will soon be gone will help your partners emotional turmoil.
If you would like help with premature ejaculation call me and book yourself in for a consultation.
I operate in Leamington Spa Warwickshire UK and will be able to help you using a mixture of hypnosis, NLP and EFT to overcome this issue so that you and your partner can become closer.