Parental Neurosis. Old Programs.
Parental Neurosis. Old Programs. Parental and social neurosis conditioning or just stuff that is no longer useful.Many of us are walking round with our subconscious mind full of out dated unhelpful programs that are not only useless and outdated many are actually harmful to our live and happiness.
That is a natural part of growing up and learning how to operate in this world. We learn at an early age through osmosis by being in a family we do what they do to be like them and to survive. That is why if your parents or carers spoke English you do as well. If they walked upright you did the same.
All with out a conscious mind or critical thinking. Mother nature programmed this in to you. If you were like them then they would look after you and feed you, and house you. They became the Writing on the Wall
However along the way you also had many other things inserted. You would have taken on habits, behaviours and opinions of your little tribe so that you fitted in and knew how to operate in this system. This includes many useful and important lessons and many that are not.
You watched and tested patterns of behaviour and discovered if they worked. If mummy nagged daddy and got what she wanted then this may have been considered as a useful survival program so the young child learns to nag males to get what she desires. If a young boy sees daddy powerless in a situation he will likely learn to be the same.
If a young child sees the adults getting attention when they are upset or over emotional then this can set up a pattern later in life for subconscious problems involving secondary gain and can lead to problems later in life where illness is used in order to gain attention.
Anyone who is an authority figure in the child's life and plays some part in it’s continued survival will have input on programming it. This of course also includes beliefs around religion, school and social interactions and these confusions may lead in some cases to unconscious in congruence and self sabotage.
At a later time as you tested boundaries and discovered the rules you adapted and changed. Parts of your unconscious mind let go of certain patterns and new more useful ones grew. Then at a certain age you would have breed and the cycle goes on.
Remember that all this took place with out a rational conscious mind and with out the ability to rationalise and reason. The child was young with little knowledge of the world looking to the adults to show it how to survive. If it reached adult hood then the programs worked and unless we can find a good reason for growth and personal change they will remain as they have been effective. The problem is these old patterns were designed for a child and taken on board with a child's mind.
Just imagine what will happen if the parents have programmed there own fears and views of the world in to the kid and of course they will have. Many of us hold different views and opinions to our parents and these have usually been based on a conscious decision we made. But. A few do still get through and we run our lives as if they are true. Even if they are not.
How often have you noticed the same parental neurosis or personality disorder in families not to mention fears and phobias? These were loaded in to you or you noticed them in the people who your survival depended on.
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