Impotency and Male Sexual Performance Anxiety
Anorgasmia in Men. Male sexual performance anxiety.
This is an inability to reach orgasm during sexual intercourse, and this is more common than you might think. For most men this leads to severe anxiety, fear, and worry and can lead to even greater problems in your relationships with your partner or family.
For some men there sexual performance anxiety presents itself in terms of an inability to reach orgasm only during sex with a woman, they are able to experience great pleasure and ejaculate while masturbating, and this can lead to a great deal of confusion. Many men wonder if there is something serious wrong with them or even if they are turning gay.
Most sexual anxiety is the result of psychological problems or concerns, and as your own mind is causing the problem only you and the effective use of your own mind will result in a cure.
Hypnosis Hypnotherapy and NLP are the most effective ways to deal with your problem of anorgasmia and male sexual performance anxiety. Many hypnotists and users of NLP are regularly asked to deal with this problem.
Stress of some sort is usually at the root of anorgasmia in men and male sexual performance anxiety, and stress is something you can learn to deal with.
Psychological Causes
Around 90 per cent of anorgasmia and sexual anxiety problems in men are related to psychological issues, performance anxiety is the number one psychological problem.
Performance anxiety in this context is not necessarily related to staying power during intercourse, most men have not been taught or have not bothered to learn good sex technique or learnt the psychological make up of women.
One lady client once told me that her husband spent more time studying the habits of fish and fishing, than how to pleasure her. No wonder she had affairs.
Many sexual problems can and do result from: Stress. Work stress, family stress, life stresses which is why learning to handle stress is very important in your life.
Other causes may be rooted in the development of negative attitudes towards sex, sometimes from childhood. There is also a relationship between male anorgasmia and childhood or adult sexual abuse or rape.
Marital problems, boredom within a relationship coupled with a monotonous sex life are also known contributory factors, as is simply not likening the woman you are having sex with.
So many of the causes are quite simple to deal with.
One common problem occurs when a man feels he can not trust his partner, and believes at some level she may be attempting to become pregnant.
This fear of not wanting a child can lead some me to experience a droopy wilily. Drugs, including alcohol, are known to impair the orgasmic response. Chronic illness and pain will have a debilitating effect over many aspects of life including your sexuality.
As you can see there are many possible causes for your problem, the first thing to do is to discover were your problem starts and then to take action to remove and change your habits so that you can once again experience a wonderful sex life.